Fear is a challenge to victories not a letdown, Fear is a negative side everybody experiences in different ways
Fear that; I lost my only job, what will I do next, I got expelled from my finals in school, my career is over, Fear of Failure, If I Fail. It is normal to be afraid. A lot of reasons to be afraid of but it takes a certain step and process to get up on your feet, believe me I have encounter a lot of failures and different stories I can’t really backup with but I still got up with the determination that I want it gone and done that am ready for my positive business.
Fear should not be that pain or trouble of your life, fear simple means;
F – FALSE
E – EVIDENCE
A – APPEARING
R – REAL.
Fear on the other side is your negative emotion ready to bring out the sad terrifying you. Don’t let this control you.
I will guide you with the Best Steps you probably have not heard before. Is the Best and Quickest method I use and helps me;
HOW TO GET OVER FEAR OF FAILURE QUICK AND EASY WAY.
1. FACE YOUR FEAR, DON’T RUN FROM IT
A lot of times people intend to dodge or try to run from their mistakes or probably the negative side but I will hate to break it to you that it will end up coming back in due time. Maybe in times you don’t expect it happening. Fear is like a circle that once you run from it goes around hitting you from the back where it hurts the most.
Facing your fear might sound dangerous but believe and trust me on this one best thing to do is FACE IT cause is you in control and not it. Face it and get up and use your perfect solution to solve it than letting it go round and round with no control of you.
2. MAKING A FIRM CHOICE
This comes in like an opinion to let it in or face it like I said, many humans find it difficult to make the choices when they have it. Let me tell you I perfectly understand that during this process you will be in a difficult state most times you won’t have it in your head telling you to make the choice but I finally came up with this cause I knew it was the best weapon I had and was moving me to the point I wanted to be that’s the conquer, The fighter among fear. The fear kicking human lol 😂. Being able to stand and make the decision Is a fair deal and trust me the deal is no where for the Fear to be around you.
3. TRUST YOUR FAITH
I might have said face your fear or making your firm choice but It can’t happen if you don’t go on with having “FAITH” having “BELIEVE”. The situation on sight might seem impossible or undefeated but the only conqueror is your Faith and not working by sight but by Faith. Faith is the weapon to all victories every successful man or woman won or made it to where they are because they had the faith, they kept the faith, they believe that noting is impossible as long as they believed and kept pushing no matter the difficult might be.
Some people lack the faith or their Fates are weak but don’t you worry, don’t get lost on they way for there is only one supreme and divine way maker, the hope and that’s God, seeking God for help is the best way to build your faith to conquer Fear of Failures.
4. SHARING YOUR FEAR WITH YOUR CLOSED FRIENDS
A lot of times keeping your problem is not the way to let the burden out but want to share with someone that will understand you, someone that will give you the hope and smiles and restore you back, someone that will join you on your battle to fight it and bring victories. We all need someone to talk to because taking to yourself is the biggest and worst idea you can come up with or you mind made up.
Have someone close to share your fears, your difficulties and your differences together and am giving this because I tried it and it kept me free and working to achieving the impossible this is one of the best tricks ever.
5. GIVING A POSITIVE REACTION
This is the easiest and sweetest moves to get you up and running in no time, fear is just the FALSE EVIDENCE APPEARING REAL. Is not true, fear don’t tell the story you do. Anytime the fear comes and feels it could take anything, I know is not real and know is another of their fake stories I give the best and positive reaction in my head, I react to everything to be good, I joke around, I smile and laugh around in due time you see that you are now filled with positivity and everything will turn out great and all good.
Always be filled with people’s good thought and reactions, exchange ideas if I’s business or girls or creatives or whatever that will keep you turned on better for you. Don’t stop the moment.
6. HIGH SELF-ESTEEM
Having self confidence that you know your worth, that you know your perfect stand gives you a good hit out of failure and backs you up with your standard. Start by having to be the BEST AND GREATEST BOSS IN YOUR WORLD. When I look at myself, I know where I am heading and if perhaps the fear of failure comes in know that I can stand a chance to get over fear. I will tell you that keeping yourself to the height no one has reached is the key goal to say you can’t let anything bring you down. Keep pushing your self-esteem high.
7. THINK OF THE GOOD RESULT
When pushing fear away think of the after result that will lead you to the reward after failure. Think of the chances to that might be missed if you did give up or let go. One way to keep yourself moving is releasing that there is a win after the struggle of pain.
Successful people don’t give up because they know where they are going, same am telling you this I want you to realize the victories heading your way it might be more sooner than you expected, it might be a double proportion of your chase. Just don’t miss out because you see a little fear making you lose a bigger goal (Opportunities).
SUMMARY: These following steps were able to give me a head start I didn’t let fear take me away from my opportunities and still pushing and going to top over and over again. I assure you that if you follow my guidelines after some years of experience you will be a boss to your world in no time.
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